“Wait, So is this a romantic date?” Podcast Episode 105: Best gender Ever | Autostraddle

The occurrence topic this week is perfect Intercourse very we have been writing on… the greatest intercourse we have ever had! We’re accompanied by Autostraddle author, poet, and reporter Dani Janae as we get into some steamy anecdotes followed closely by an in-depth discussion by what makes good gender good. And then we fork out a lot of time to my intimate hang ups that I could or may not have actually accomplished many run come july 1st!

Arrive for any lesbian movie-themed online game, stay the coming.


SHOW NOTES

+
The 200 Best Lesbian+ Films record
that Christina pulled the game from.

+ For those who haven’t review Dani’s
Structure of a Mango
series you actually must.

+
Here is the article
I had written regarding the person We talk about on the episode. Its merely already been 2 years but plenty has evolved!

+ the summertime has passed therefore however stan Olivia Rodrigo. View the
“raw” songs movie
.



Dani:

The pet plus the dog were inside the place so there was actually cat-and-dog locks everywhere. And so, I happened to be definitely having an allergic impulse although we were having sexual intercourse. However the climax had been like cook’s hug. It absolutely was an ideal, best knowledge physically.


Christina:

We ask yourself when it’s some thing about the hives that actually added only a little

je ne sais quoi

to this orgasmic knowledge.


Theme song performs


Drew:

Thank you for visiting

Wait, Is This a Date?


Christina:


Hold off, Is This a Date?

is actually an Autostraddle podcast all about, you guessed it, online dating.


Drew:

Yay! I Favor internet dating. I’m Drew Gregory. I’m an author for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and just basic trans gay individual across internet and… I happened to be planning state world, but it’s truly more like L. A. and nyc.


Christina:

I enjoy this globe trotting gay character you are facing the following in 2021.


Drew:

I would like that. Yeah, it’s for future years.


Christina:

Yeah. I am your other variety, Christina Tucker, also a writer for Autostraddle, deranged noisy homosexual on the internet. Simply sorts of out here, authorship, becoming homosexual, carrying out that which we can every minute to try to function with this existence that individuals’re residing.


Drew:

You are actually carrying it out. You’re really functioning through that existence.


Christina:

Honestly, it’s all I can carry out. Which is all i’ve, oahu is the only option.


Drew:

I must say I respect the attempt.


Christina:

The attempt to stay?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Yeah. Really, actually daring of us to actually attempt it. You aren’t completely wrong, you’re not completely wrong. Do you really be interested in playing some online game today, Drew?


Drew:

Oh my God, I’m thus excited. Can’t delay to see everything have actually for me personally.


Christina:

I am thus happy you said that because you definitely have to say yes, because that’s part of this offer that people’ve created right here. So you could be aware of the point that on autostraddle.com, the web site, there is a list of 200 lesbian motion pictures.


Drew:

I realize of it. I could have written it.


Christina:

You might have. What I have done is actually extract a selection of 10 of these movies. I’ve held these to the most effective 50. I’ll provide story keywords as determined by people on IMDb and you are clearly going to need do you know what motion picture it is.


Drew:

Okay. I just desire the listeners, wherever you are, to find out that I am not saying going to pull-up record. I believe you got that right, am We assuming that’s correct in how I needs to be respecting this video game?


Christina:

In my opinion that is extremely polite and I also believe’s reasonable. I also sorts of count on that the is certian end up being something that one thinks of pretty simple for you, I didn’t get also kept.


Drew:

I’ve a dreadful memory space, but yes, i’ll attempt to set men and women up for low objectives.


Christina:

Fair enough.


Drew:

Therefore if i really do very well, it is want method of blow all of them away, and when I do not excel, are going to like, “Well, she talked about…” Anyways, carry on. Let us start this.


Christina:

Let’s beginning. I shall focus on pretty basic types and that I will get a lot more certain even as we go, because a few of them tend to be literally precisely what the film is actually two words. Therefore weare going to just be sure to focus on a wider knowledge right here.


Drew:

I enjoy it.


Christina:

The basic movie: drugs could be the first story word. Manhattan, nyc will be the 2nd. Hate criminal activity could be the 3rd.


Drew:

Okay.

It’s All Over Me Personally.


Christina:

Yes, it really is! See, I knew you’d be able to perform this.


Drew:

Great.


Christina:

We positively knew you would certainly be able to perform this.


Drew:

Additionally, i simply want to allow individuals realize that that will be probably one of the most underrated lesbian films, and also you really need to see it. And Leisha Hailey in this movie might my phone back ground for two years now. Very just an enjoyable small reality truth be told there regarding of you.


Christina:

We love that. Fine, film number 2. “Unknown daddy,” organ donor, cemetery, death of child. Oh, she is thinking.


Drew:

Personally I think like i will surely understand this according to — wait, unidentified pops, death of boy, organ donor. Oh,

Everything About My Mommy.


Christina:

Indeed there truly, see.


Drew:

Another of my favorites.


Christina:

It is very exciting observe things that individuals determine tend to be a land keyword that they have to pull from the films. I am in addition maybe not reading the people which can be only lesbian because that seems similar to a gimme.


Drew:

That is the way I developed most of the list since if you appear up lesbian motion pictures, that which you found was the old Autostraddle list or some lists which are not extremely comprehensive, therefore I would in fact search through lists from the keywords of lesbian, lesbian kissing, these items like women kissing, these exact things, and discover flicks in which they truly are not looked at as a lesbian movie because they’re a little more fascinating, or maybe just a bit less drive, that is certainly how I discovered certain films that are now from the number, very full circle.


Christina:

Tune in, IMDb keywords coming in convenient for all constantly. This one, individuals moved wild on this one. Thus simply likely to review some random words for your requirements. Hey, whistling, lady, black recreations bra, river, stomping out a cigarette, face to face collision.


Drew:

At work collision? Oh, I Was Thinking I had it after which, really—


Christina:

Cool, in parentheses, the heat.


Drew:

Due to the fact initially I happened to be going to state

Foxfire,

but the on the job collision turned myself upwards. On the job collision.


Christina:

Do you want more?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Pickup truck crashes through a fence.


Drew:

Would it be

Miseducation of Cameron Post?


Christina:

It is not.


Drew:

Because working collision could well be a really awful means of describing this 1 associated with homosexual because you’re attempting to convert to perhaps not gayness, tries to mutilate themselves or does mutilate on their own. That’d end up being fairly intensive, but I didn’t know because of the IMDb thinkers. Okay, hold off, this will be deceiving me personally upwards.


Christina:

Would you like some more from myself?


Drew:

Vehicle through a fence. I’m certain its something which I’m just not… Yeah, carry on.


Christina:

Mention of a school loan. Normally therefore peanuts.


Drew:

Wait, maybe you’ve viewed this flick?


Christina:

I’ve come across this movie.


Drew:

Could it possibly be untamed that I am not getting hired?


Christina:

It is some crazy. I am able to offer you per year, if you prefer a year.


Drew:

Should you decide give me personally a-year, We’ll certainly obtain it.


Christina:

Okay. 2016 is your season.


Drew:

2016. Okay, tell me what it is.


Christina:

It will be the movie,

Certain Females,

2016.


Drew:

Oh! Yeah.


Christina:

I really thought pickup truck crashes through a wall would enable you to get, but In addition simply love these people only taking out nouns and just becoming like, “male.” Usually how you feel?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Okay.


Drew:

That’s a great movie. I must see that again.


Christina:

Truly. Its outstanding movie.


Drew:

Yeah, it’s a really fantastic movie.


Christina:

Okay, the next film. Kissing whilst having gender.


Drew:

The best variety of both, maybe, you might say.


Christina:

Seduction, dude farm.


Drew:

Is-it

Desert Hearts?


Christina:

Yeah. Therefore I was like, “Okay, you got to get that next one.” Another one I became planning to provide you with was actually — “nipples” ended up being the really prominently showcased. And I also was actually like, “Sure, definitely element of that movie.”


Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You understand how there’s these irritating people available to you wanting to be Shane. Sorry, i am talking about, if you should be trying to end up being Shane, I accept you. But me personally, my personal annoying thing would be that i am wanting to end up being Cay. Cay in this movie is similar to that is just who i do believe of due to the fact sort of lesbian that I want to be.


Christina:

Yeah, that’s true, can confirm. Okay, are we prepared for our next one?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Year—


Drew:

Hold off, no, You will find yet another thing to express about

Desert Hearts.


Christina:

Positive.


Drew:

Following final time we re-watched it during the summer, it sort of delivered me personally into a small spiral, and I texted this more mature semi-closeted one who I got type of begun tentatively planning to big date or time whatever, and who’d vanished for monthly, and that I had abadndoned because I don’t beg men and women to date me. But i recently ended up being similar, “Okay.” We viewed

Desert Hearts

and I was like, “i suppose possibly occasionally people have their own internalized whatever.” And I also texted the girl and I also stated, “If we never ever meet, I think you’re be sorry.” And we did satisfy, to ensure’s what

Desert Hearts

can perform for you.


Christina:

Wow, which is a really effective recommendation.


Drew:

We most likely must not have fulfilled. I most likely needs only allow it to be. But anyways, progressing, then film.


Christina:

The subsequent film, metaphysics, scene during beginning credit — what meaning, it is your choice — twelfth grade soccer, Chicago, Illinois.


Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.


Christina:

There you are going.


Drew:

That’s another great film. I love that We keep getting astonished from this listing that I experienced a very powerful turn in positioning. It is not my personal ranking, but i did so have a big suppose for the positioning and I also love it.


Christina:

Yeah. I simply wish to be obvious for you and our very own audience — again, We picked through the leading 50, thus they’re really good types. Of the great ones, these are good types. I Understand Drewshould continually state this can be outstanding flick after each and every one, but—


Drew:

They truly are great movies, all of you should enjoy all of them.


Christina:

Okay. Quick dress with heels.


Drew:

Think it’s great.


Christina:

Cock blocked, mini top with shoes.


Drew:

I am talking about, could it be

Blockers?


Christina:

It is really not. That would be also simple, In my opinion, for

Blockers.


Drew:

I Do Not bear in mind any miniskirts, but—


Christina:

Feminine rear nudity.


Drew:

Okay. Wait a second. Okay, what a moment. Okay, penis blocked, mini top, female rear nudity.


Christina:

m4m hookups-hmm (affirmative). Break party.


Drew:

Will it be

Certain?


Christina:

It isn’t really.


Drew:

No, I would love a break moving scene.


Christina:

I really like a rest dancing world in

Bound.


Drew:

Some slack dancing world.


Christina:

I will provide: English girl abroad.


Drew:

English lady overseas? This is certainly another in which I feel we definitely need to have it.


Christina:

I’m going to have to offer you a pretty apparent one eventually, soshould assist.


Drew:

Okay, provide me personally an obvious one.


Christina:

Undercover agent.


Drew:

Could it be

D.E.B.S?


Christina:

It’s not

D.E.B.S.

Its next to

D.E.B.S.,

version of movie a good idea. Here’s someone else, intrigue.


Drew:

Okay, hold off, there is not a large number of genre motion pictures.


Christina:

You can findn’t, that is correct.


Drew:

Undercover broker. Well, maybe they are by using the phase, is it

The Handmaiden?


Christina:

It’s not.


Drew:

Okay, i did not think-so. Undercover representative.


Christina:

Do you need the 12 months?


Drew:

I Imagined that… Positive.


Christina:

The 12 months is 2017.


Drew:

Undercover agent.


Christina:

I am so sorry. You will feel therefore stupid once I say the subject of your one.


Drew:

Oh no.


Christina:

I’m really sorry about this, but that’s types of simply the means the cookie crumbles.


Drew:

Oh, it is

Carol.


Christina:

No, it’s not

Carol.


Drew:

No, it states 2015.


Christina:

Yes, I Am Aware that. It’s not

Carol.


Drew:

But there is an undercover — the guy, that’s where I found myself considering. Okay, what-is-it? How does it generate myself feel stupid?


Christina:

It’s

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.


Drew:

Oh, that is when you look at the top 50?


Christina:

It’s. I know.


Drew:

Oh, okay.


Christina:

Fine. Offering four more, you ready?


Drew:

I do not believe stupid because that one I… What i’m saying is, In my opinion

Atomic Blonde

is fun, but I do not imagine it really is great. That could not be in my individual leading 50. I really do wish the entire world to find out that I know that

Carol

came out in 2015. My personal head damage. I recently desire society to understand that. Anyways, continue.


Christina:

The planet today knows that, the record might shown. All righty: cafe, feeling of smell, novelist, regard to a hamburger, reference to Larry King, based on memoir, alcoholic, theft, lady wears glasses, residing by yourself, destroying proof.


Drew:

The regard to Larry King is truly—


Christina:

It’s a very weird one.


Drew:

Mention of the Larry King, ruining proof.


Christina:

Cat.


Drew:

Oh, would it be

Could You Actually Forgive Me Personally?


Christina:

It really is.


Drew:

I needed to get me. I was truly in a slump here.


Christina:

You nailed it. I believe you’ve got indeed there, I do believe you positively had gotten truth be told there. Okay, three a lot more, our very own top three. I think these ones might be simple for you because I’m sure you.


Drew:

Great, ok, well…


Christina:

I understand, but I’m stating, are you ready?


Drew:

Okay, yeah.


Christina:

Mental health, medicine overdose.


Drew:

Is-it

Foxfire?


Christina:

No. Photographer.


Drew:

Oh,

Greater.


Christina:

There we go. Tattoo, woman gang.


Drew:

Is this

Foxfire?


Christina:

Yeah.


Drew:

Oh, i understand

Foxfire.


Christina:

I became like, “Oh, she’s going to simply hold speculating

Foxfire

until I just offer her

Foxfire.”


Drew:

The key would be that Everyone loves

Foxfire

and that I hold wanting to think of

Foxfire.


Christina:

I am talking about, whomst among us?


Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.


Christina:

Fine. This one, one of those is actually—


Drew:

Here is the last one?


Christina:

This is basically the last one. It is all of our finally one. Church, denial, family relationships.


Drew:

Could it be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?


Christina:

It isn’t.


Drew:

Is it

But I Am a Cheerleader?


Christina:

Really, yes.


Drew:

Indeed. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Article.


Christina:

Jokes on laughs. So as that was actually the game I’m contacting, how good really does Drew Know Lesbian videos???


Drew:

I favor exactly how great the audience is discovering names in regards to our games.


Christina:

Yeah, it’s actually mortifying that we also typed that into the concept of a Google Doc, that which was I considering? That does not actually look fantastic during my Google Docs.


Drew:

I had a good time and I’m actually happy that I got to tell most of the audience about all flicks which they should view. So we’ll place the record in program notes.


Christina:

Absolutely.


Drew:

I’d point out that the list is at someplace in which I think you might get something out-of seeing all 200 films. Initial form of record, there clearly was some things on there that I was not as pleased about. There is still stuff I think that I don’t directly but i do believe that overall, there’s a specific quality assurance after that latest improvement that personally i think happy with and I also think they’re all worth watching.


Christina: